Elizabeth Carolina was a name I'd held in reserve for eight years; it was almost Mary's name. But Mary was so roly poly and pink, so clearly a Mary, that "Mary" edged out "Elizabeth" and "Elizabeth" was saved for the hypothetical second girl we might end up having one day.
Why Elizabeth? For Elizabeth Bennet, of course. And she would be called "Lizzy," of course. Except that my husband doesn't like the name Lizzy. He prefers "Betsy," which is okay, I guess, except that it's not the name of my favorite character in literature, ever.
So after the baby was born he called her Betsy, and I called her Lizzy, until one day we both started referring to her as "the itsy-bitsy baby," and that was pretty much the end of the whole thing.
I keep saying, look, we have to stop calling her Bitsy. It's undignified. But habits are hard to break. And at this point, if we called her anything else, I don't think she'd know to whom we were referring.


